I came across an article the other day, that opened my eyes to the world of the slut. Nathan DeGraaf on the Points In Case website (which doesn't mean anything to anyone - and really it's just someone else writing shit somewhere on the web...) I just liked his ideas. So... he came up with a categorization of the Four levels of slut. And before you get all huffy - he's being good to us women! Not all sluts are bad - Nathan is out to help us woman who get the "bad" slut label. Read on, not all sluts are bad!
Level 1: The Sexually Liberated Woman
The first level of "slut" is not really a slut - she's the woman who gets sterotyped as a slut because she likes to have sex (god forbid!).
The Sexually Liberated Woman tends to not have a boyfriend - but rather tends to get laid. And get laid a lot. This woman doesn't care about settling down and having a family and all of that American dream BS, and she thinks it's highly unfair for other woman to judge her based on this choice. And god knows that women are the biggest critics of each other!
Honestly men love this type of woman (Nathan - the author of this article included!) because she's the queen of NSA sex. And what guy is going to turn down sex without committment. It's the best of every world! I've gone through this phase in my life, and had many a friend judge me for it. And it's not fair to be judged for just following your bodies wants (and needs!). And seriously, if you are safe about it, why the hell not! Go for broke, you are only young once. Go for the committment later (and I'm going through that phase now...)
Level 2: The Garden Variety Slut
Like the Sexually Liberated Woman, the Garden Variety Slut doesn't have a boyfriend. Unfotunately, unlike the Sexually Liberated Woman, the Garden Variety Slut leads men on. She tends to sleep with multiple men at a time leading them all on to thinking they are entering into a relationship. Basically, she's a game player... Now these girls shouldn't be even allowed to roam the streets - they make the rest of us girls look horrible and make guys think twice about dating girls. Bitches should be sent to an island to all fuck with each others heads.
Level 3: The Cheating Slut
I've written about cheating before and how much I hate it! Now the author of the original article, Nathan, says there are 3 different categories of cheating sluts: those who cheat on a boyfriend they've had a couple of months and then tell him (which he claims is no big deal); those who cheat on a guy they've dated for a few months, never tell him, and force him to find out from his friends (a slightly bigger deal because these sluts lack honesty); and then there are the worst kind—the sluts who fuck around on a man they’ve been with for years and never tell him about it. Nathan says that when men call a woman a "slut" or "whore" this is the kind of slut they are really referring to. Personally, I think this kind of slut is just beyond horrible - any type of cheating is highly unacceptable (on the part of men or women) If you don't want to be in the relatioship you are in and want to fuck around with someone else, end the relationship and knock yourself out. Don't hurt someone else's feelings in the process. And before you go accusing me of feeling this way because I've been cheated on - I actually haven't been cheated on! I just have had way too many friends that have been negatively affected by cheating.
Level 4: The Money Grubbing Slut
The Money Grubbing Slut actually loves her boyfriend, believe it or not. But she money as well. She may not make the money he does and expect someone to support her habits - whatever they might be. This type of slut will seek out the men who can take her to nice places and buy her the shiny objects she so desires. Nathan thinks this is the worst kind of slut because she pisses on love all for material things. DC is full of these kind of sluts. You know the type. The girls who are dating "daddy" and bringing all kinds of shiny objects home that she (or her man) can obviously not afford... But no one dates to question because they don't want to know the truth.
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