Let me start this off by saying, I'm no prude. I like some porn as much as the next person, but dang - there is a growing obsession with "porn moves" in the bedroom. Maybe not so much obsession with the moves, but guys asking for these moves/positions/etc and being outright with it and extremely early.
I cannot tell you how many times I've been asked to participate in anal sex, threesomes, orgy play, facials, and even crazier tasks - even before I've had a first sexual experience with a man. Umm, really?!?! You think they'd at least wait until they are comfortable until they'd ask that. Maybe I just have that look of a porn star - which is scary.
I can only think that we are a more open society, and porn is obviously more readily available. And we all know that the Internet is only good for porn (and blogs too!). And with porn so readily available we cannot help but watch it. And watching it we must emulate what we see. And those girls in porn are obviously having SO much fun doing it all that "normal" women would as well. They don't get paid to do that or anything!?!?
How about we enjoy porn for what it is? Something to get off to, something to arose us. Yes, there are positions and "things" we can try, but lets not whip that shit out right away. Can we please wait until we are more comfortable with each other. What ever happened to plain ol' sex? Or even kissing?
Just received my check for $500.
ReplyDeleteSometimes people don't believe me when I tell them about how much money you can make by taking paid surveys online...
So I took a video of myself getting paid over $500 for participating in paid surveys.