I hate cheating. I think it's wrong. I do not condone cheating at all. With that said, sometimes I'm embarrassed to be a woman. I say that because a lot of men cheat because their woman isn't taking care of them at home.
I've heard it time and time again. After being in a relationship/marriage/etc for awhile it becomes stale. The woman stops putting out. She has a headache, she's too busy, all that stuff. All of these excuses. (On a side note, I cannot use my own experiences here because it's been ages since I've been in a relationship!) The sex goes from being hot-hot-hot to being not-not-not.
That's when the guy start straying. I cannot count how many times I've been contacted via my online personals accounts or Craig's List posts by guy in a relationship of some sort for a little "extra curricular" action. After my refusal, the guy will usually tell me why. Honestly, most of them really don't want to cheat on their wife/girlfriend but they are just sexually frustrated and need the release. (Do I see that as an excuse - hell no! And I tell them so!) In some sick way I understand them. I feel sorry for them. If their bitches would just put out at home they wouldn't go out looking out somewhere else.
So that's a note of caution to all of you in relationship. Don't put out (hell, that's on both sides!) and risk the other party going somewhere else to get it. Seems obvious - BUT don't think it is.
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