The "bad girls" burden

So, let me tell you a story.  It's kind of sad in a way.  Lets say, hypothetically a girl is good at sex or at least one part of sex (say, maybe the blow job).  We shall call her the "bad girl"  And maybe this Bad Girl has done a bit of reforming in the past little while (check Missing Mr. Right Now post).  And while she's got some great techniques in her back pocket she's not really handing that shit out anymore.  (Wait, not that she ever did!) 

Anyway, there is a true burden to being good in bed, especially when you are living the "celibate" lifestyle waiting for Mr. Perfect (even if that's a myth - "she" chooses to believe!)  It's amazing how many of the past men come out of the woodwork.  And it's not the good men (granted, how many men that are in the past would you consider "good?)  But it's the guys that you really didn't want to hear from again.  Think dates that you might have felt sorry for and played with... (no one said she was perfect - so suck it, that was BEFORE!)  Or guys with teeny peeny that might have been in the past that she might have dated, but it didn't work out, and lets be serious - if you are going to just fool around, without any commitment you really aren't going to chose the guy with the teeny peen! 

And then there is the really hard ones (pun maybe intended!) those guys coming back for more that "she" actually enjoined in bed.  You know how hard it is to resist that.  Especially when they are telling you how good you are in bed.  That's really hard to resist! 

Here's to all the reforming bad girls out there!  Trying to resist all the advances from guys coming back for more.