How does a woman get good in bed?

Listening to the radio this morning, a man called in and raved about his woman's ability between the sheets.  But he also dared ask the question, "how did she get so good in bed?"  It's one of those questions that you think about, but really don't want to know.  The DJ (I don't like that term for some reason, maybe it's because I grew up with a kid who liked to be called DJ - well for a  year - but that's a whole other story...).. anyway, the DJ took callers.  Here were some of their answers.

1.  It's about quantity.
Of course, some argued it's about quantity of guys that women sleep with.  The more men you are with the more you can "explore" and learn about the man's body.  The more experiences equal better sex, and you can pass that shit on, right?

2.  It's about quality.
But, still others argued that it's about how often you sleep with those men you are with.  The more sex you get with the same person you learn about what makes their body tick and what you can do with the male form.  More sex with the same person makes you better.

3.  Watching porn makes you better. 
Still another woman called in and claimed she was good in bed because she was/is an avid porn watcher (if that's what you'd call it.  She says she's good in bed because she watches what the ladies (again, if that's what you'd call them!) in porn do.  She also says she doesn't do everything that the porn girls do, but picks and chooses what to perform in the bedroom, but watching the porn girls definitely helps build her bedroom repertoire. 

4.  Sleeping with older men helps you perfect your technique. 
And then the kicker... was the 20 year old college student who claimed that the best technique was to hookup and date an older man.  You know, go the May-December romance route.  Of course, she was advocating other things as well, such as "getting your money's worth out of the transaction" and making sure that he provided for the girl in and out of the bedroom as well.  But the college girl said the best way to improve your bedroom skills was to sleep with the older guy in order to improve your sex skills because older men obviously knew what they were doing.  She does have a point....

Humm, they all have a point... And I'm not saying any of them are wrong.  Granted, I think the basic premise of their assumption that there are "good in bed" is in question because the DJ didn't have empirical evidence that any of them were good in bed before they offered their advice - so we must take them at their word.

I would have to say that it's a combination of the first three (while the fourth one has merit - it's not an option for everyone).  Quantity (as long as it's not excessive - we are not talking about any female Wilt Chamberlain's here!) a long with quality helps.  That way you can learn exactly what a man likes.  To be really good in bed you have to know how to react to the good "oohs" and "aahs" and build on that.  Knowing which spots to hit takes a little practice (or watching porn to see where they hit it)  But lets be honest - porn goes a bit far, and in porn you never know if it's real or just for the camera - ESPECIALLY on women - so it doesn't work the same for men.  Because half the shit they do to a woman on there doesn't turn women on or even feel good - it's just for the men.  So men, porn is for your visual pleasure, it's not always good for the woman (take note, please!)